Texas Divorce Mediator: Military & Custody Specialist
What is a Texas Divorce Mediator and Mediation?
When families in Texas are going through tough times, like a divorce or disagreements about their kids, a Texas Divorce Mediator can step in to help. Think of them like a helpful guide who sits down with everyone involved – not to take sides, but to listen to what each person wants and needs. Their main job is to get everyone talking calmly and constructively, especially about big decisions like where the kids will live, how to split up belongings, or if one person needs financial support.
Instead of fighting it out in court, the mediator helps people find common ground and work together to come up with solutions that everyone can agree on. This way, things can often be resolved more quickly, privately, and usually with less stress and expense than going to a judge. If everyone reaches an agreement, the mediator helps put it all down in writing, and that document can become a solid plan for the family's future, often approved by the court.
The mediator does NOT have to be a lawyer or retired judge, they simply have to have the training that Texas requires. Although many lawyers and retired judges do become mediators. Regardless of whether your mediator is a lawyer or retired judge, they cannot give legal advice during mediation and remain a neutral party. A mediator’s role is simply to help both parties come to an agreement, not to interpret or advise on legal aspects.
Disclaimer: Ashten Gallagher Ed.D., LCSW-S is a mediator, NOT an attorney, and no information presented shall be taken as legal adviceAbout the Mediator: Ashten Gallagher, Ed.D, LCSW-S
Clinical Social Worker with several years of experience in conflict management and de-escalation
Thorough understanding of the overwhelm and emotional impacts affecting those divorcing and co parenting to include published research on post divorce parent/child attachment
Expert in utilizing trauma informed approaches to conflict management
Army veteran with personal experience and understanding in the unique challenges of military custody and divorce issues
Formally trained in both basic mediation and advanced family mediation as outlined by Texas Civil Practice and Remedies Code, Chapter 154, Subchapter C, Section 154.052
Formally trained in Parenting Facilitation and Parenting Coordination as outlined by Texas Family Code, Section 153.610 and 153.6101
Benefits of Mediation
You control the outcome: Unlike court, where a judge makes decisions for you, mediation allows you and the other party to create solutions that you both agree on.
Less stressful and adversarial: Mediation is generally a calmer, more cooperative process than going to court, which can help preserve relationships, especially important when children are involved.
More private: Mediation discussions are typically confidential, keeping personal details out of public court records.
Often faster and less expensive: Resolving issues through mediation can be significantly quicker and more cost-effective than lengthy court battles.
More flexible solutions: You can come up with creative and personalized solutions that a judge might not be able to order in a courtroom setting.
Higher compliance rate: Because you're part of creating the agreement, people are generally more likely to stick to the terms reached through mediation.
More questions? Review the Texas Divorce Mediation FAQ